In a recent post, I mentioned cutting expenses by adding one frugal habit every month or so. The example I gave was reducing Starbucks trips from daily to once or twice a week. The more I thought about it, the more I realized there was something else there important enough to write about. It’s the idea of making your “splurges” special.
This sounds kind of weird because splurges, by definition, are special. They are a special treat we give ourselves. Originally, the meaning was something a little over the top, something luxurious or costly. The trouble is that for whatever reason, whether it is advertising that encourages us to indulge more often, or the stress of daily life, many of us have “splurge-spread.” What should be a special treat has become something that we do almost every day. We still tell ourselves it’s our little splurge. But it has become a part of our routine.
That’s what happened to me with my Diet Dr. Pepper habit. When I was little I rarely drank soft drinks, even though I loved them. Then when I was out on my own, I started to have my beloved Diet Dr. Pepper more and more often. I wasn’t a coffee drinker, so I’d drink a DDP for my morning caffeine fix. At first, it was just when I hadn’t slept well and needed a pick-me-up. But pretty soon, it was a daily thing. If I forgot my DDP, my day wasn’t going to be a good one. Then, I started having one in the afternoon. I realized I was headed for a two-a-day habit. And it wasn’t something special. It was normal.
So I’ve started to cut back on my soft drinks. (My tastes have changed with maturity and now I’m more of a Coke person.) It’s taken me a long time, but now I drink 2-3 a week instead of 1-2 a day. Here’s the thing, though. My Cokes have become special again. Instead of it ruining my day if I don’t get a soft drink, when I DO get one, it’s a splurge. It FEELS special again. I really savor the bubbles and the sweetness. I notice how good it tastes.
Now soft drinks aren’t super expensive, so it’s not really about the money in that case. It’s about my quality of life. And even though it might seem crazy, having fewer splurges has actually improved my happiness. When I have a Coke, it is a choice, not a habit. And oh my gosh, how I enjoy it. Before, I just took it for granted.
But what if part of it IS the money? What if the habit you decide to change can add $20 a week or more to your bottom line, and make you happier in the process? That would be sweet, right?
So give it some thought. Is there a “splurge” in your life that you don’t even notice anymore? Is it something that could either save you money or could become something special again instead of just part of your daily routine? Try reducing – not eliminating – it. And see what happens. You might find that you like it even better when it is truly a splurge.
And whatever you do – or don’t do – on this front, remember I believe in you. You got this!